Countless books have been written about grieving. The answers to when, how, how long, etc. can be read on countless pages. Some of these books are written with knowledge and good intention. Some are written to cash in on the “business” of grieving. Be wise in your choice.
There is advice that can present to you from well-meaning loved ones, friends, etc. The advice like answers from books can be conflicting and confusing. Choose carefully the advice you listen to. Advice is like shoes…there are many, but not all of them fit you.
There is one conclusion that I hope you will or have come to in your search for answers or comfort. It’s your grief…no one else’s…follow your heart as you see fit to grieve. Remember, grieving is a lifetime experience