Yesterday Cannot be Changed

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Memories of yesterdays are precious to our hearts. Often, memories are bitter-sweet and difficult to recall. We tend to focus on the bitter side of things and create much heartache for ourselves.

I have memories of my son, Jon, that are bitter-sweet. The tears I shed are tears of regret. I have gone most of my life regretting and blaming myself for not doing things different…for not knowing what to do…for not getting it right.

Hindsight is so clear, but the reality of the moment is all that I had. Looking back, I know I could have made better memories. Unfortunately, that is not how it works. You do with what you have and what you know at the time. I was young and trying to figure it out. I knew nothing about most everything.

I am learning to forgive myself. I am learning to let go of regret. If any of this is relative to your memories, I hope you will forgive yourself. It is hard to admit we are not perfect; that we do not have all the answers. It is very hard to look back and accept the bitter with the sweet. That is what we must do, for we cannot change it for yesterday cannot be changed, it can only be accepted.

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2 responses to “Yesterday Cannot be Changed

  1. This is a very touching and sincere post. I applaud you for your courageousness to understand that we do not have all the answers and that we are not perfect. I find comfort in knowing that in my weakness God shows himself to be mighty and fully capable of handling those things that I simply cannot. I also find it comforting to look for the lesson and the victory in each encounter. Thank you for sharing this awesome post!

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