A loved one dies. You beat yourself up for all the things you could have done…could have said; for all the things you shouldn’t have said or done. The negativity of grieving can be a vicious circle of regret and guilt.
All of a sudden, there is no more time. They are gone. The tendency to go negative is strong. The list of regret and guilt grows fast. Grieving will be harder than necessary. You have got to lose the negativity list. It has no bearing…it will only take you down.
It is time to remember one thing. You are human. You did your best in each circumstance. You did your best and your best is always good enough.