Once life comes to an end and someone passes, there are no more opportunities to talk to or be with that person. There are many reasons (not saying they are good reasons) why family or friend chooses not to speak to another.
Imagine for a moment…the hours, days, weeks, months, even years that are lost. Time doesn’t repeat itself and you can never get back what is lost…then, one day, there is no more time…no more opportunity to talk or be with someone. At that point, there is only a lifetime of regret. Is that what you want?
I don’t think so. So, step over the issues, if you can remember them, and talk to and be with that someone…while you have the time. You won’t regret it.